Do you remember the men in old movies? Slow talking, respectful, strong (mentally/physically/spiritually), etc. They fought well, when they needed to, and shook hands after it. They were stern and disciplined well. They loved their families and would die for them in an instant. They were rough around the edges, of sound mind and pure heart.

What happened? Where did those men go? How do we get them back?

I hate to quote the song, but I want to be like John Wayne. Or at least the characters he played. Strong, moral, dedicated, hard working. I want to be able to teach people like he does in the movie “The Cowboys.” I want my words to be that meaningful, for my actions to be an example.

I’m hoping I won’t need to wait till I’m 40-50 in order to act like that, but I know a sure fire way to head in that direction is to spend time with men who are already like John Wayne. I’ve been fortunate enough to be surrounded by men who have learned a thing or two and are interested in sharing those things with knuckleheads like me. Now all i need to do is, well, follow through. I guess that’s the first step in a long journey. I know it will be worth it.